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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Thursday May, 9th for 200 points, following 100% of her 13 rules. She didn't lose any life points and therefore got 1 piece of fruit for the hard work. Her public review of the day was…

A day full of dozens of little admin things — phone calls, emails, follow-ups (follows-up?), organizing, scheduling, planning, printing stuff.
I don’t really know how such things can fill up a whole day, but they did.

Warm, sunny, muggy day. Sat in the backyard for a bit with a cup of tea, enjoying how those big pink magnolia petals completely cover everything. It was a little blinding, like looking at a field of pale pink snow in the sun. The magnolia perfume was nice. Every little gusty breeze sent another flurry of large petals drifting down through the branches to the ground. Very peaceful.

:) SylvieF
8 days ago

The dozens! Cousins to the hundreds, but let’s not go there. I love your description of the backyard magnolia, plus a bit of time with tea, peace.

:) MaryAnn
8 days ago

Maybe there were hundreds….
:-)

8 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Wednesday May, 8th for 277 points, following 100% of her 12 rules. She didn't lose any life points and therefore got 1 piece of fruit for the hard work. Her public review of the day was…

Bustled around, got stuff done. Saw husband off for a short trip, always a last-minute rush. Found some hard-to-find necessities that I needed to buy. Sorted out a logistical problem. And just enjoyed a mug of mint-chocolate-rooibos tea. Soon to bed.

The backyard is blanketed with big, pink-and-white magnolia petals, slowly turning brown. It’s odd to look out and see the ground all pink.

9 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Tuesday May, 7th for 208 points, following 92% of her 13 rules. She lost 1 life point for missing the following: do meaningful work at least 6 days a week. Her public review of the day was…

Got stuff done, although busier than I’d like (but that’s what I always say).

Highlights:
Couple of good work conversations, new contact that holds promise, got a couple of awkward errands done (one of them has been very long-procrastinated), found and bought the right colour of flowers (annuals) for the backyard, tasted a couple of nice new teas.

And so to bed.

:) MaryAnn
10 days ago

The magnolia tree is still a cloud of pink, but the blossoms are drooping and falling.

Magnolia petals are covering the back yard — the grass, the stone walkway, the patio table, everything is covered with a layer of big pink, white, brown petals.
A blanket of magnolia petals.

It will be fun to rake them up. Fun and a chore. They will still radiate magnolia perfume.

It comes and goes so quickly. A week ago, the flower buds were just opening.

:) Kim Lindsey
8 days ago

I remember how recently the buds opened! It does come and go quickly, but in this busy growing season there’s something new to look at already! What is it? (Here… crabapples I think.)

:) MaryAnn
8 days ago

Well, before we leave the magnolia….
I’ve been really enjoying the blanket of petals covering the yard. They completely cover everything. I took a break and sat out there today with a mug of tea, and it was blinding — like looking at a field of snow, pale pink snow. :-)

Looking up at the tree, there are a few raggedy blossoms still, and little pale-green leaves starting to appear. And a slow shower of big petals drifting down to the ground, with every little breeze.

The new things….
An old-fashioned pink bleeding-heart, the flower buds still tight; a clump of Solomon’s seal with those little white bells hanging down in a row from underneath the fronds, also still young, tight flower-buds, but already pretty; young ferns, several different kinds, unfurling…. and clumps of iris blades over a foot tall, bringing promises of iris blossoms….

And lots of other little odds and ends, green things starting to grow.

It’s nice. :-)
Thanks for asking.

10 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Monday May, 6th for 199 points, following 100% of her 12 rules. She didn't lose any life points and therefore got 1 piece of fruit for the hard work. Her public review of the day was…

An okay day, although tiring. Got several problems sorted out, but a couple of them created a lot of stress and pressure for quite a while.

Many ups and downs lately. Have to find better ways to do something like roll with the punches, or fend off stress, or something like that.

The distinction made between rest and renewal was helpful today (thanks, msmaggie). This is something I’d understood, sort of, but hadn’t articulated to myself so clearly. I think this points me someplace useful.

:) MaryAnn
11 days ago

Down through black branches,
Magnolia petals dropping—
Plop, plop, plop, to ground.

:) MaryAnn
11 days ago

Magnolia petals
Cover the grass: pink, white, brown—
And still smelling sweet.

:) Bridget
11 days ago

Ahhhhhhh

:) kaizenkaren
11 days ago

Nice.

:) NinaCnyc
11 days ago

I’m intrigued by the distinction between rest and renewal. I searched your previous posts but could not find it. Can you link to it somewhere?

:) MaryAnn
11 days ago

Nina – sure – I’m intrigued, too.

I’m copying the whole post that msmaggie made, with links included:
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MaryAnn requested some more info about the neurological importance of renewal as an antidote to chronic stress. Here are some practical responses. I thought they might be of interest to everyone, especially since so many of us do renewal activities like meditation, yoga, prayer, spending time with pets and kids, making art, etc.

Positive Renewal: https://spark-public.s3.amazonaws.com/lead-ei/Boyatzis%20%26%20Smith%20%282012%29.pdf
Mindfulness, Hope, and Compassion: A Leader’s Roadmap to Renewal http://www.iveybusinessjournal.com/topics/leadership/mindfulness-hope-and-compassion-a-leader%E2%80%99s-road-map-to-renewal#.UTjH3jcfkzI
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Her post, made late Monday, is here:
http://healthmonth.com/n/284491

11 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Sunday May, 5th for 219 points, following 100% of her 13 rules. She didn't lose any life points and therefore got 1 piece of fruit for the hard work. Her public review of the day was…

Pretty good day — a nice mix of chores, relaxing & enjoying, and exercise.
Specifically: sat outside having coffee and doing a little paperwork so I could also gaze at the magnolia; did some outside garden & yard-work (cleaning up dead stuff from last year); then a longish walk along the lake, ending at sunset; then a roti for supper.

The magnolia blossoms are now past their peak. Such short-lived beauty. The blossom petals, slightly fleshy, were making little thuds as they started to fall today.

12 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Saturday May, 4th for 216 points, following 91% of her 12 rules. She lost 1 life point for missing the following: limit spending for anything non-essential every day. Her public review of the day was…

Some major stresses in the past week, but today things turned around and the day had many ordinary blessings, for which I’m grateful.

- finished enough decluttering and cleaning for the city guy to come and install the water meter in the basement
- consequently, some long-due chores got done and the place looks better (i.e., we’ve Unfucked our Habitat a little www.unfuckyourhabitat.com )
- took the opportunity to have a mending-fences conversation with the neighbour who installed the noisy, Volkswagen-sized air conditioner (the good-guy half of the good-cop/bad-cop duo) as he was obviously trying to make nice
- found a much easier way to clean some difficult-to-clean floor tiles (so I can now clean them more often, because not such an aversive task)
- while waiting for the city guy to arrive, sat in the backyard for a couple of hours, gazing at the full-bloom magnolia (which is somewhat like gazing into paradise) – drinking tea, thinking, dozing, meditating
- the city water-meter guy was a lovely and interesting man from Haiti, who told us something of his eventful life
- went to an evening concert to hear “The Bills” – we enjoyed them hugely
- met an old friend at the concert who offered to help me with something I’m having difficulty with
- returning tonight through the backyard, smelled the perfume of magnolia

Not a bad day.

:) MaryAnn
13 days ago

Another one to add:
- at the concert, met a beautiful guide-dog, a golden retriever – when I squatted to pet him, he rested both of his front legs on my forearm – his family joked about how he could ‘work the room’.

:) Elfu
13 days ago

It really sounds like a great day. :) Thanks for the link (unfuckyourhabitat), I had a great morning reading it and other blogs I found through it. :) Got a lot of new inspiration. :p

:) Bridget
13 days ago

business first, MaryAnn; what is the easier way to clean some difficult-to-clean floor tiles?

I love to read of your magnolia gazing. What a fine sensory experience. Visual, physical, and a bit of spiritual I would guess.
http://www.allthingshealing.com/Intuition-Symbols/Magnolias-Flowers-of-Divine-Beauty-Life-Force-and-Perfection/8174#.UYZQ7qLP3CY

:) MaryAnn
13 days ago

Thanks for that link, Bridget – that’s very close to what our magnolia flowers look like. Except a bit softer/paler colour, more fading from pink to off-white.

I’m off to have my coffee and gaze at the magnolia, and read the magnolia page I printed out.

Joy/pleasure first; I’ll tell you later about cleaning tiles. :-)
(it’s actually not very generalizable to other kinds of tiles, I don’t think, but I’ll tell you)

:) MaryAnn
13 days ago

Elfu, I’m glad you liked that site. I love it, and I also love just saying/writing the words, “UnfuckYourHabitat”. ;-)

:) MaryAnn
13 days ago

Ha, I just noticed – that link goes by default to a “mobile mode” page. (What’s the world coming to, I ask you?)
Here’s the regular, computer-mode version:
www.unfuckyourhabitat.com/?et_no_mobile=1

13 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Friday May, 3rd for 197 points, following 100% of her 12 rules. She didn't lose any life points and therefore got 1 piece of fruit for the hard work. Her public review of the day was…

Lots of stuff to do. Some decluttering in basement: tossed out several dozen jars/bottles and cans of food and juice long past their prime. City contractors are coming tomorrow to install water meter in the most cluttered area of basement, and we have no choice about it. Bah.
A good motivator to declutter and chuck out some shit, though.

The two guys who bought the house next door last Fall to renovate and flip, have just finished the job, and have placed a few feet away from our front porch one of those gawd-awful, noisy, air conditioning units that’s the size of a small Volkswagen. Some unpleasant conversations about the placement of that. Too late to change it. (Too expensive, too much trouble, they won’t do it.) No space for a sound-buffering structure, either.

It will preclude any sort of relaxing on the front porch, whenever the fucking thing is running. Triple-bah. I wish I had a grenade to throw at it. Maybe a family of raccoons will nest in it. Or skunks. Or badgers. Skunks would be good.
All we can do is hope that whoever buys the house doesn’t like to use air-conditioning.

I begin to understand why some people prefer the old suburbs, where the lots are wide and you have some elbow room and some buffering to protect you from insane and/or noisy neighbours.

Bright spots:
Good work conversations, and a part-solution to a problem. Magnolia continues to be magnificent and too gorgeous for words. Clipped 54 cat claws, with (inexplicably) hardly any fuss at all.

:) MaryAnn
14 days ago

An interesting band playing in a small venue here Saturday night – “The Bills” from west coast Canada.
Should we go?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_cwi03goN1I
“Shining Face”
I’m not lost and confused by the motion of time any more,
I’m not torn and confused by the motion of time, not any more,
‘Cause there’s a shining face,
There’s a shining face….

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SwYBxfzpy0M
“Not the End”

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tcvnBzAsqQ
“Gardenton Waltz”
(this piece picks up after the first 1 to 1-1/2 minutes)

:) MaryAnn
14 days ago

This gives me goosebumps. I wonder if anybody else finds this so beautiful….
And sung against a sort-of star field. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9h2QC3nM-Ec
The Wailin’ Jennys – “Bird Song”.
I would love to sing like this.

After leaving The Bills, I stumbled into this song, and was surprised that the guy playing the fiddle is the same guy who’s playing the fiddle with The Bills. Ha.

I know the silence as the world begins to wake,
I’d like to be that silence as the morning breaks.

:) susan taylor
14 days ago

Are there no city guidelines for placement of such things? How positively obnoxious. Will ck out the music tomorrow on my computer!

:) MaryAnn
14 days ago

Hmmm…. thanks for the idea… never thought of looking into guidelines or bylaws. Maybe I will. It would mean starting a bit of a war, though, and I’m not sure I’m up for that. Worth checking into, though.

:) susan taylor
14 days ago

Finding out if there are guidelines doesn’t lock you into any particular course of action, so it couldn’t hurt to check into it.

:) MaryAnn
14 days ago

Exactly. Will investigate. Thanks for the suggestion.

14 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Thursday May, 2nd for 202 points, following 100% of her 13 rules. She didn't lose any life points and therefore got 1 piece of fruit for the hard work. Her public review of the day was…

Pretty good day. Learned some stuff, practised some stuff with a colleague/friend, went out for an impromptu Ethiopian dinner with husband, and reminded ourselves of a couple of causes for optimism.

Still, stresses and frustrations in the background that won’t go away. I guess they need to be accepted as part of life.

The pink saucer-magnolia opens its blossoms a little more each day. Its peak will be over the weekend. It’s such a stunning sight — a grown-up tree, as big as those trees get (maybe 30 feet) — covered with probably a couple of thousand blossoms. And they smell nice, too.

:) susan taylor
14 days ago

Your tree sounds so beautiful.

:) MaryAnn
14 days ago

Susan, I could just sort of swoon and die, looking at that tree. And the blossoms are 6-7 inches across. It’s almost too beautiful to be true.

A fleeting beauty, though – the blossoms come and go in about a week, and this transience makes it even more breathtaking.

:) susan taylor
14 days ago

Dan Fogelberg had a beautiful song called Magnolia.

:) MaryAnn
14 days ago

Just listening to Dan Fogelberg on YouTube.
He died at age 56. Prostate cancer. :-(

:) MaryAnn
14 days ago

One thing led to another…. :-)
I love this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l1PJ9mF2H2Q
“Rhythm of the [Falling] Rain” – The Cascades, live.
… but live around 2006, singing their 1963 song.
I think they do it better now!

:) MaryAnn
13 days ago

I mean, better in 2006.

15 days ago

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MaryAnn had a couple thoughts.

Heart.half.16 6 · 3,787 pts

. . . Magnolia !
has burst into bloom!

:) MaryAnn
15 days ago

This is our mature saucer-magnolia, photographed in April, couple of years ago. It’s a slightly later Spring this year – the flowers are now a few days away from being fully open – but soon . . . .
It’s a spectacular sight.
A magnificent bouquet.

:) Bridget
15 days ago

cheers and smiles!

:) SylvieF
15 days ago

Fantabulous! I love magnolias.

:) susan taylor
15 days ago

absolutely gorgeous!

:) Bridget
14 days ago

So happy for you Mary Ann!! Have a blooming luxurious weekend.

15 days ago

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MaryAnn, in the Green Bracket, played Wednesday May, 1st for 179 points, following 100% of her 12 rules. She didn't lose any life points and therefore got 1 piece of fruit for the hard work. Her public review of the day was…

Not the easiest beginning to the month. The day began with high stress which, thankfully, turned around eventually. Not enough energy for much else after that. Did a bunch of time-consuming admin, phone calls, and the like, and sorted out a few things.

Husband made baba ganoush from scratch, beginning with roasting the eggplant. It was really delicious.
To bed early tonight, if it kills me. ;-)

:) Bridget
16 days ago

I am happy for the turn around in your day. The baba ganoush sounds as good as … as … as it sounds. yum.

:) SylvieF
16 days ago

Maybe this was the highest stress-point of the month and you got to get it over with already! Well, I guess we can’t know. But I’m glad your day turned around. Homemade baba ganoush and early to bed, mmmmmm, perfect.

:) MaryAnn
16 days ago

I sure hope it was the highest stress-point. More days like that would wear me out.

:) Smitha
16 days ago

Sleep well |-)

16 days ago